Talking About Abortion

Breaking down abortion stigma is actually kinda simple: we need to talk about it!

But just because something is simple doesn’t mean it's easy. There are a lot of feelings of guilt and shame around sex, sexuality, and abortion that are really hard to wrap your head around. Of course, there is no pressure to talk about abortion if you aren’t ready yet, or if you have safety concerns. But if you are ready to challenge the abortion stigma, read on for some tips on how to talk about abortion.

For guides on how to talk about sex, sexuality, and contraceptives, check out the Talking About Sex page.

With Yourself

Talking about abortion and breaking down stigma starts internally. If you are having an abortion or have had one, you might start by talking about why abortion was right for you.

With Partner(s)

If you have partner(s) that you wish to be a support person during your abortion, here are some tips on how to approach the conversation.

With Family

You may have one or more family members you would like to support you during your abortion. Here are some tips for how to approach the conversation.

With Friends

You may have friends you would like to support you during your abortion. Here are some tips for how to approach the conversation.

With Your Kids

Many people who have abortions already have children. Talking openly about abortion with your kids breaks down the stigma.

Stories and Testimonials

1 in 4 people who have uteruses will have an abortion in their lifetime. Abortion is a common and safe medical procedure, and sharing our stories is how we can de-stigmatize abortion and ensure that it remains an option for anyone who needs care.

To read abortion stories, visit Shout Your Abortion.

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